I have some issues with my biological family. After I communicated with my parents on the phone the other day, I made my mind not to visit them in Japan anymore. It was very tough decision for me. I felt lonely and sad, and I cried a lot.
After the conversation with my mom, my mother’s soul visited me in my dream. She said she understood everything and it was okay. I was supposed to cut off any kinds of nostalgic emotions toward Japan, so that I could focus on my current life in America. We all agreed like this. Everything was going just like we previously planned, before I was born. My mom’s soul gently hugged me and told me she was always proud of me.
I have one brother whom I haven’t seen nor communicated for more than 5 years. This morning his soul visited me in my dream. He told me he missed his little sister and he was always happy for me and proud of me whenever he heard about me living happily with my family in America. His soul also told me it was okay and everything was going as we previously planned.
I wanted to share my personal experiences that show the discrepancies between the situations in Physical world and in Spirit World.
We all experience disagreements or arguments with our family members, friends, and coworkers. Most likely, we tend to think the specific person is the evil one and you are a victim. However, it might be already planned previously. The specific persons might volunteer acting like a villain to us to help us to learn something important. These people might be an angel figure for us because they kindly volunteer to help our spiritual growth or awareness.
One example: If we are lacking in communication skills, somebody might come into our life to help us to realize our poor communication skills. We might get irritated to the person, because we know deep inside of ourselves that the person reflects our lacking skills like a mirror. Therefore, in order for us to resolve the relationship with them, we might have to brush up our communion skills. Once we brush up our communication skills, the person might become our best friend for the rest of our lives.
Another example: If we have a tendency to stay being yes-person to everybody, some people might show up to challenge us about our being yes-person situation. Unless we really stand up for ourselves and change our attitudes, the similar situations keep on coming to our lives via different people, in different situations. And, the challenges most likely tend to get bigger and tougher to solve.
We tend to forget some agreements before we were born, but we can at least ask ourselves if the event gives us an opportunity to grow up. If our answer is Yes, it might be based on our agreements before we were born.
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