There were some times that I used to offer people a psychic reading session, but currently I have stopped offering it due to some reasons.
Most of my clients were women whose age ranges were varied from their 20s to 70s. Majority of them asked me if their current boyfriend was the right one for them or not. In case they did not have a steady boyfriend, their question was exactly when they could meet their right partner.
I had a hard time to answer these questions. Every relationship has a meaning; nothing can be a mistake. I could answer “yes, the person is right for your current situation, but remember, both of you are constantly evolving. In case each one evolves faster and greater than the other, the relationship will end and both of you will eventually have somebody new to best fit to your spiritual lesson at that time.”
I don’t believe any marriages do not last happy ever after. Any relationships come with good times and bad times. Nothing can stay as the same state, because everything and everybody keeps on evolving. Right partners are not the one who bring you only happiness. If they are the right partner for us, they also bring us challenges so that both parties can learn from one another through close interactions.
We tend to admire something that we don’t currently have. When we are single, we admire to have a steady partner or married. On the other hand, when we are engaged in a relationship with a steady partner or married, we admire the state where we are free from any commitments. When we don’t have any kids, we admire to have kids. When we have kids, we admire the state where we don’t have kids and are free from any responsibilities. The grass is greener on the other side. Why don’t we stop looking at the other side, but rather, focus on where we are and what we have.
From the perspectives from Spirits, any state where we are at this moment totally fits to our current desire for our spiritual growth. That means we should enjoy every moment. Every state has strengths and weaknesses, and every event comes with a certain lesson for us to learn from. Let’s appreciate what we currently have and make the best out of our Now situation.
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