Before we were born, we have made many spiritual agreements. Such spiritual agreements can be seen in our biological family members, life-time friends, schools, teachers, and careers. They are our key people and key events in our life. Right before we were born to this physical world, our memories are erased for our convenience. So we don’t remember the details of our life blueprint.
This is my personal experience. I like to know the answer right away. In short, I am impatient to search out answers. In my youth years, I loved reading mystery books. But I always hoped that somebody would tell me the real criminal beforehand. So, one day, when I gave my favorite mystery books to my brother, I told him the real criminal’s name. I did so from my kindness. But my brother was so upset with me, blaming me that I took away his fun part to search out the real criminal.
Those days, I didn’t understand why my brother was upset with me, but now I do. It would be much more fun for him to read through the mystery book without knowing the real criminal beforehand.
I think this can be said about life events. Some people want to know the detailed predictions on their career, marriage, and other significant life events; when and how they will happen. But doesn’t it take away the fun parts?
If we know everything beforehand, it won’ be fun. I think that is why our guide spirits don’t tell us everything in details. They respect our free will and reserve our fun parts on solving the issues and searching out the answers.
When we finally search out the right one after long-term efforts, the success feeling and joy would be great. It won’t be not that fun if we find the right job, and right spouse, right friend, and right house, right way, without any efforts.
Sometimes, when we get stuck on searching out the right one, it might be a good idea to step back from the situation for a while. It is not giving up, but relax and observe. Just know that we will eventually meet the right one at the right timing. It’s going to be great when we finally find the right one after our efforts and struggling. And most of the time, the right one and the right timing come unexpectedly from unexpected directions.
So, let’s enjoy the searching process. For any kinds of searching; job hunting, spouse hunting, friend hunting, and house hunting, we will be guided to the right one at the right timing. Life is mystery. It is designed to enjoy the searching process.
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