Last year during my husband had a tough time, I used to go visit one of my acquaintances. I needed somebody to listen to my story, and I needed to express how frustrate I felt.
The person was very nice to me and showed great deal of compassion to me. The person was on my side, and that means the person did not like my husband. That led the person to always speak ill of my husband, strongly suggesting divorce.
After spending several months intensively visiting the person, I finally noticed that I should stop visiting the person. After listening the person’s whole bunch of speaking ill about my husband, I finally got fully awake, that I love my husband and I am willing to support him. This is my life. I decide what I should do. I have decided to stay with my husband and believe in him, no matter what. I don’t need anybody who tries to control my life decision.
I can be a mommy bear for my husband and daughter. I can be super mean to protect them.
I think you have a similar experience. Even you and your spouse get a temporary fight, or you and your child get a small argument, whenever somebody else speak ill of your loved one, you will instantly change your attitude to that of a mommy bear who is always at her full strength to protect her loved one.
Today I had my 12th business meeting with my business mentor. He asked about my family, how my husband and daughter are doing. He also mentioned something very nice about my husband. I instantly feel great to listen such positive comments.
Every minute we have an option. I take an option to hang around with somebody who speaks positive things about my loved one. I take an option to stay away from somebody who talks nothing but negative things and speak ill of others. Let’s keep on taking the right option for us. That is the key to maintain our vibration nice and high.
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