When I came to this country, several people told me that I am a super empathic person. I didn’t know the meaning of this word, so I thanked them for saying that anyway.
Then when I came back home, I looked up the meaning of empath. I really didn’t like it. I didn’t like people recognized me as an empath.
The truth was though, I was empathic. Super empathic.
I still clearly remember my first years. When I was small, I used to see people’s energy in color. Sometimes it was scary because from the energy color, I learned people could lie in front of other people’s face.
For example, if somebody was invited to a certain gathering, although the person was reluctant to go there, he/she would lie in front of the person who invited, by saying “thank you for inviting me. I would love to go.” One lie will bring another lie. The person will have to attend the gathering and pretend being enjoying.
When we lie, that means our outer aspects (face expression and statement) and inner aspects (true feeling that our hearts feel) have discrepancy. And these discrepancy will cause another tragic events, over and over again.
As a child, I saw many people lived like that. I, as a child at that time, felt so sad for growing up. Because I thought I would have to act the same way when I become a grown up, lying and hiding my true emotion and feeling, and live my life like that.
So, being empathic, I experienced the sadness by watching and sensing the adults’ discrepancy between their true feeling and outer expression.
I believe most young children are super empathic. In order to protect them, we, as adults, should match up our true feeling and outer expression.
It is easy and simple. When we are happy, we laugh. When we don’t feel comfortable, we express our feeling honesty, but do our best not to hurt anybody’s feeling. When we live our lie in that simple manner, we won’t make younger children to be confused
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