Recently I met one mom with a little boy at the local library. We ended up playing together at the park on the day, and the following day, we went to the park and enjoyed our picnic lunch together.
Her little boy is three years old. He didn’t have preschool to go, so that the mom and the boy stayed together all day long, every day. The mom told me that since her son was born, she hadn’t had her own alone time at all. She made a big sigh while saying that. I remember those days. It was tough for me.
During my daughter’s spring vacation, I took her to the park every day. There were many moms and babies or young children. Among them, there was one mom and one girl whose age was around 5 or 6.
The daughter seemed like she peed in her pants by accident. The mom started scolding her daughter. Her voice was very loud and in a very mean way. For some reason, the mom’s voice sounded like desperately sad.
While I was listening this stranger mom’s yelling at her daughter, I felt sad. It reminded me of my previous years. Those days I didn’t have any family members or friends close to me, so that I didn’t have anybody to ask for help. I was stressed out about all the new things; taking care of my child.
From this experience, in the future when my daughter gets married and has babies, I would like to be there for her. Whenever she needs some advice or help, I would definitely like to be there for her.
If you know anybody who recently had a new born or young child, please offer small help to the mom. I know even a tiny small help will be a great help for the mom.
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