I watched the movie Wolf Children. It is a Japanese movie, and the original title is おおかみこどもの雨と雪 Ōkami Kodomo no Ame to Yuki.
It is a great movie. It is fun, cute, and romantic.
I should not write the story in details on behalf of people who is going to watch. But I want to share what I learned and experienced from this movie.
It is a love story. It is a story of a family; dad, mom, and two children; a boy and a girl.
I got very emotional when I saw the little boy was so attached to his mother when he was little. The little boy would stay with his mom all the time. He loved his mom’s gently stroking on his back with her calming voiced mantra “everything will be okay”. When the son grew up at the age of 10, he decided his way of life. Although the mom was very sad to see his son leaving, she respected her son’s decision and let him choose his way.
I could not watch this movie without tears. I thought about my son-to-be who could not be born in a physical body. I knew if he were born, we would be so attached to one another. Then, when the time has come for him to be independent and choose his way in life, I would be very sad but at the same time, I know I would respect his free will.
As a matter of fact, I already experienced it. When I was pregnant with him, although it was only for 9 to 10 weeks, I was so happy to feel him and stay with him. Then, things didn’t go well during my pregnancy and his soul needed to go back to his spirit hometown. Although I was very sad of his leaving, I could respect his will and let him go, for his highest good. I am fine with this relationship with my spirit son. Because I am just a thought away from him. I feel his existence whenever I want to communicate with him.
It can be said to other relationships as well. Staying with your significant others (such as family and friends) physically close is wonderful, but even if we are separated in physical distance, we can be connected by our thoughts. I think if we love somebody truly and unconditionally, physical distance does not matter. And we can respect the person’s free will for his/her highest good.
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