Think after it happens 8/15/2017

I am currently taking an online class to be a successful public speaker. In one of the lecture, the instructor shared his 150 favorite quotes.

My favorite one is definitely this.

“When I look back on all these worries, I remember the story of the old man who said on his deathbed that he had had a lot of trouble in his life, most of which had never happened.” By Winston Churchill

Mark Twain has similar one. “I’ve had a lot of worries in my life, most of which never happened.”

I love these quotes because it is universal to many people. This applied to me as I had lived my younger days like that. I had a tendency to worry a lot even for things that have not happened to me yet.

I cannot spot where I got this habit from. Most likely it came from one of the social life in schools or work places. Maybe it is a habit that urges us to prepare in advance for something emergency or unexpected accidents.

Nowadays though, I don’t live like that anymore. I worry less than before. When I stop worrying, I started receiving benefits. Such benefits are falling asleep right away, waking up comfortably, or feeling lighter on my shoulder.

I owe a lot to my family for my improvement of not to worry too much. After I started living my life together with my family, I have started thinking about being surrounded by my ally. No matter what happens to me or us, I don’t need to fight alone anymore. I have at least two more strong souls to fight with me. I can handle anything with my family. I don’t need to worry in advance. I will think about it once it happens.

It applies to everybody. Even if you live alone, or if you are single, you are never alone. Technically speaking, you are surrounded by your family spirits 24/7. When something happens, they will think with you and for you, about what to do for that. So, don’t worry, stay happy.

Any feedback? (^^♪