In this morning’s dream, my family spirits kept on showing me several sceneries that I went through in my younger days. They showed me a scenery from my perspective at first. Then, my conscious left away from the experience, and observed the same scenery from somebody’s point of view. After they repeated this process, I finally got it. They wanted to teach me the importance of the balance between subjectivity and objectivity.
When I experience an event in the first place, I can feel my emotion toward the event. The emotion can be hurtful to go through. The emotion comes directly because I see the event from only one direction. It is a narrow vision.
On the other hand, when I see the event from somebody’s perspective; aka objectively, the vision gets wide. Observing the event does not accompany with any emotions anymore, because the event is just an event to teach me something.
It is a great skill to see an event from subjectively and objectively. If I can fully master this skill, I can always enjoy experiencing the direct emotion, then right after that, I can learn the lessons from the experience.
It might sound difficult, but I think it is possible to master it. It is just a skill. We need to practice this over and over again by being alert of this skill.
♬ Any feedback? (^^♪
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