This is a continuous story from my yesterday’s article. I mentioned my daughter being good all the time.
Contrary to her, there are some children who are not good all the time.
In her class and the activity club, there are such children. They cannot sit still; constantly being restless. They constantly disturb other students by yelling or screaming. At the worst case, they hurt other children by hitting or kicking or throwing something hard.
Based on their actions, it might be the symptoms of attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).
During today’s activity class, while other child was listening to the teacher quietly, the ADHD child kicked the innocent child. Although the ADHD child’s mother witnessed what happened, she didn’t scold her own child nor apologize to the innocent victimized child.
I witnessed this child acting up many times. Every time the mother did not do anything to correct it.
The mom should take any kind of right actions, such as talking to her son not to hurt others or apologizing to the victimized child on behalf of her son. Her son definitely watches her mom doing these for him. He eventually might be able to understand things through his mother’s proper actions.
In my personal opinion, it wrong for the mom to keep bringing her child to the school and any other activities if she cannot take an appropriate action.
We all make agreements before we were born. If a child wants to be born as ADHD, first, the child will need to talk to the parents-to-be about the purpose and goals from the condition. Only when the parents-to-be agree to accept the child with the condition, then the child can be born to them. All the birth conditions are tools to learn in order to raise their spiritual understandings.
Being born as ADHD itself is not bad at all. It is not bad nor good. It is simply one of the conditions that we can use to learn. However, when it comes to hurting somebody, it is wrong. The child and the mom need to work together, in order to prevent further hurting others.
I hope this mom will remember about the agreement soon. Ignoring the current situation does not help anybody at all.
♬ Any feedback? (^^♪
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