I finished reading the book “Judgement Detox” written by Gabrielle Bernstein. As always I enjoyed reading her book. Her book guides us the readers to a spiritual journey. After reading her book, I feel like I came back from an adventure or a journey. There are many points that resonated with me well.
I would like to share one part that resonated with me the most. It is about forgiveness.
Gabrielle says “This isn’t to say we need to forgive immediately. We simply need to be willing to forgive.” Cited from her book page 176.
I feel forgiveness is one of the most difficult topics because of its personality. We can fake ourselves. We can pretend that we already have forgiven somebody who hurt us mentally and physically. However, the true forgiveness become available only with the help of spirits. It is a spiritual work. It is a miraculous work.
Last year I took a huge leap on forgiveness toward my mom. I had accumulated anger toward my mom for many years. When I expressed my anger to her in person, she said she didn’t remember any of them.
When I heard her saying that, I finally realized that it was me who stubbornly stuck with the anger. Then I truly decided to be willing to forgive her. The rest was easy. My family spirits took over the remainder tasks for me. My anger to my mom dissolved and melted away.
Gabrielle also says that willingness is the key to open the door for forgiveness. It is very true.
With my own experience, I can assure this. Forgiveness frees us. Forgiveness is beneficial to us. Once we forgive others and free ourselves, we feel much lighter and happier. It is like a free bird that can fry anywhere they want without any restrictions such as a heavy chain or a metal cage.
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