Today I had an uncomfortable experience.
It happened in the evening on the way back home from the bus stop.
There are a sibling of three in my neighborhood. The three kids approached me and asked me to let them use my cell phone. I thought to myself, “Not again. Why they always casually ask me?”
It was their third time to ask me the same favor. I didn’t want them to use my phone but I could not say no to them.
Because I was reluctant to let them use my phone, I was hesitantly and slowly taking out my cell phone from the phone case, the teenager girl roughly grabbed my phone from my hand and started using it. She said it was emergency.
The girl was mad at the bus driver and wanted to tell that to her mom. I heard the girl complaining about the bus driver, but it was not an urgent topic that she needed to contact her mom immediately.
After the girl spitted all her anger out to her mom over my cell phone, she returned my phone to me without saying anything. I was stunned at the girl. She is probably an 8th grader; 15 years old or so. She should be old enough to know to say thank you after somebody has done nice thing to her.
As I mentioned earlier, it was their third time to casually ask me to let them use my cell phone. They always returned my cell phone without thanking me.
This sibling lives in my neighborhood. That is all I know. They are not my friends. I don’t even know their names or grades. They’re never be nice to me. They don’t even greet to me. Not to mention, they are never nice to my daughter.
I don’t feel comfortable about them for casually asking me to let them use my phone. I feel myself being coward and powerless that I cannot say no to them.
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I asked some other parents if the sibling has ever asked them to let them use their phone. They all said it never happened to them. They also said they would not let any strangers to use their phone, because a cell phone contains lots of private information.
One of the parents mentioned to me like this. I look nice and don’t seem to say no to them. Probably that is why they ask me, not to any other parents. She said until I change the pattern, the kids will ask me over and over again.
She was right. While I was listening to the parent, I felt myself as a little helpless child being picked on by those kids. Today’s incident happened for a reason. I need to do something to change this pattern. I don’t want to end up to be a convenient person whom the stranger kids can ask me any favor.
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After I came back home, I asked my family spirits and angels on what to do. Should I contact their parents and mention about it? Or should I let it go?
I instantly got their answer by vibration. I don’t need to contact their parents but I do need to improve my energy field so as to protect myself.
I still don’t know exactly what to do for that, but I will work on that.
All in all, every incident happens for a reason and it gives us an opportunity to improve ourselves, right?
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