I talked with my friend through Skype.
I knew my friend would ask me about my parents. It is a sensitive and private matter for me. From my recent uncomfortable experiences, I didn’t want to hear anybody’s comments about it. I didn’t want to talk about it. So, before I started conversation with her, I made my mind on not to talk about it at all.
After our casual chat, my friend asked me the question. She asked me how my parents are doing. As I planned, I instantly answered to her “Nothing new. Everything stays the same,” and I tried to change the subject to avoid talking more detailed information about my parents.
I could not do so, though. Without thinking logically, I started talking about my parents. Soon enough, I started shedding tears. I hated the moment and myself crying and talking about my parents. I felt embarrassed for crying in front of her. However, all in all, it was good. Because, after I shed tears and let go of my emotion, I felt relieved and good.
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In the evening, during we were watching the movie, for some reason, my daughter became irritated or something. Then she started shedding lots of tears. Same as I did, after she talked about her emotion and shed tears, she felt good. She didn’t exactly know what the exact reason why she cried about.
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My daughter and I talked about shedding tears and releasing emotion.
I told her crying was just fine. We all have to shed tears from time to time. Tears are equal to the sweats from our soul. Shedding tears is a great way of healing and cleansing of our soul.
It is important to select the right person whom you allow to show your hidden emotion. The person should be the right person whom you fully trust. In my case, my friend was the right one. In my daughter’s case, I was the right one.
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In the night, an interesting synchronicity happened.
For some reason I was thinking about my Australian friend. I opened her Facebook Page. She posts a daily card reading in her Facebook Page. In her newest post, she explained about the Full Moon in Pisces and its influence to people. The influenced people would have a sudden emotional explosion. By releasing it, the old and unforgotten emotion would be healed.
Then she shared her own experience. While she was in the grocery store, she had an emotional explosion. One of her forgotten memories of her childhood suddenly came back to her mind. She collapsed and wept in her car at the parking lot.
I was glad she shared her experience. I thanked her sharing and posted my personal experience in the comment and closed the Facebook.
Right before I shut down my computer, I noticed one new email in my email box. I was in awe to know that it was from my Australian friend. How cool it was! We were thinking of each other at the same time. I appreciate for her friendship.
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