In the evening I had three unexpected visitors in my house.
It was one of my friends; the mom and her children. Our daughters used to go to the same school and they were classmates. That was how I met her and became friends with her. Her family and my family became friends.
The main purpose of her sudden visit was to deliver an invitation card to us for her Halloween party. I thanked her and told her we would go to her party on Halloween day.
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After she left, I noticed I was surrounded by unpleasant energy field. I analyzed of my feeling. I noticed two reasons.
First reason was their sudden visit. I don’t like any sudden visitors at my house in any time frame. No exceptions. They stayed for a while even after I mentioned that I was busy preparing for dinner.
Second reason was their invitation to the party. We attended to the party three times in the previous years. This party is related to her religion. She and other guests believe the same religion. All of them strongly try to change our religion into theirs. They ask us the same question over and over again; why on earth we don’t believe their God. Every time they handed a candy, it came with their religious pamphlets. Their children read the passage out loud to us. They took pictures of us and posted them in their SNS accounts. It seemed like we were the same religious believer as them.
After I analyzed the reasons, I clearly noticed what I should do.
I talked to my family about my honest feeling. They agreed with me on not going to the party. I got relieved. I could cleanse my uncomfortable energy field.
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I thought I should share my experience with you. Some of you might have hard time to say No to others, just like me. But we have to be honest with our inner self in order to maintain our inner peace.
Some of you might wonder why I didn’t communicate with my friend about my honest feeling just like I did to my family. I have my good reason for not doing so, and it comes from my personal experiences.
I communicate very well with my husband and daughter. Even though we sometimes have different opinions, I feel comfortable to discuss and communicate with them. There is unshakable trust and unconditional love with them, which we have built years together.
On the other hand, I do not necessarily communicate well with others. Even with my long term friends, I don’t. Because, I don’t need to change their belief. That is their business, not mine. That is how I respect their boundary and their free will.
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