I read three manga comics written by Japanese married couple; 堀田あきお＆かよ.
The authors shared their personal experiences of nursing care of the wife’s elder parents. It was painful for me to read because they had the similar situation as my parents. Her dad was selfish and stubborn. He was not supportive for his wife at all. I feel sad for the author’s mom. My mom was the same way. Whenever my mom desperately needed supports from my dad, my dad was not supportive for my mom.
I don’t know if the author’s mom already graduated her physical life or not. I hope she already did, so that she is in the peaceful environment right now, just like my mom.
I really hope and pray for these people who had suffered at their last years from non-supportive spouses to be peaceful right now.
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I still remember two to three days before my mom passed away. I was in America and she was in Japan, but I clearly heard her voice saying she was scared of death. She communicated with me through telepathy. I replied back to her through telepathy like this.
Dying should not be scary. When she is ready, her loved ones who already passed away before her will come to pick her soul up. All she needs is to follow their lead. All she needs is to let go. If she can let go of everything she is cringing on right now, it should be easy.
Then she departed.
After she left her body, she sent me the music tone of Ave Maria. I believe it was her answer to me telling dying was pretty easy.
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