Changing myself has changed the situation looking nice 7/23/2020

Today’s dream: At the first scene I was at the beach with somebody. We were clamming for our meal. On the second scene, I was at our backyard garden with my family. We were harvesting ripe tomatoes. I woke up feeling relaxed and comfortable.

According to the dream interpretation dictionary, going clamming implies the dreamer will be blessed with thriving business. Also, clamming means the dreamer’s goal and achievement has gotten much closer than before. Just one step away. Harvesting tomatoes implies the dreamer’s hard works and efforts will be rewarded.

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In the evening after I came out from a bath, I noticed two missed calls from my dad on my cell phone. Same as usual, I prayed my family spirits for their support so that we would have a good conversation. Then I took my courage and called him.

My dad picked up the phone. Right after he heard my voice, his voice was risen with joy. On our last phone conversation on July 2nd, we ended up arguing about the different opinions about inheritance procedure and my mom’s funeral and ceremonies. However, he seemed to have completely forgotten about that. He sounded purely happy to hear my voice.

I mentioned about my husband’s got laid-off. And I asked my dad to share my mom’s inheritance. My dad was not surprised to hear about the laid-off, and he didn’t change his stance about the inheritance. He said he would keep it for himself. So far, everything was exactly the same. However, this time, something was changed in me. I didn’t get irrigated with my dad. I finally could accepted the way my dad takes.

After my dad and I had a nice conversation, we hung up the phone comfortably.

It was amazing. The situation itself was not changed at all. But I could change myself, and that led my feeling uplifted. I decided not to take my dad as hostile, instead, I chose to love him.