I woke up this morning and noticed 4 missed phone calls along with 4 new voice messages. The 3 calls were from my dad’s cell phone, and his housemaid left the voice messages. The last call was from my brother, and he left a voice message. The phone calls were made in the middle of the night, started from midnight, continued to 1 a.m., and ended at 2 a.m. I also received a LINE message from my dad’s housemaid. All the messages were my dad asking me to call him back. (August 26th)
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Last night right before I went to bed at 7”30 p.m., I received a phone call from my cousin. My dad asked my cousin to call me, and my cousin conveyed the message. While I was explaining why I don’t feel comfortable to talk to my dad at this moment, my phone kept on ringing. It was from my dad. He called my cell phone 3 times and left a voice message three times. (August 25th)
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Thank god, no calls from my dad. (August 24th)
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I received 3 missed phone calls from my dad during my online class. I called him back to the home landline phone and his cell phone twice each, but my phone didn’t go through. (August 23rd).
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I received 1 missed phone call from my dad while I was out for evening walk. I didn’t call him back intentionally, because I didn’t feel like talking with him. He always made me feel uncomfortable over the phone in our previous phone conversations. (August 22nd)
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In these past 5 days, I received a phone call from my dad 11 times. Along with the phone calls, I received a message from others such as my cousin, my dad’s housemaid, and my brother, asking me to call my dad, 5 times.
My last phone conversation with my dad was August 13th. He lied about my mom and hurt me terribly. Before ended our phone conversation, I told my dad that I would not talk to him directly for a while, because we always ended up to an ugly arguing. Is it possible my dad completely forgot about our last conversation?
Seriously. It is so annoying. I did my part. I agreed to sign the Agreement and did my part, signed and had the signature notarized, and sent it back to the accountant. Once the package is delivered, the accountant promised me to go see my dad in person. There, he would talk to my dad my reasons why I rejected to sign the agreement, and why I changed my mind to sign. According to the accountant, both of my dad and brother don’t know my reasons, or they don’t care about my reasons.
I am so reluctant to talk to my dad at this moment. Please somebody, help me out from this uncomfortable situation.
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