Still waiting 1/22/2021

After my mom passed away, I have been frequently humming one song. The lilac of the song is “I am waiting for you.” This is an old song so as the singer was. This morning all of a sudden I realized this song is coming from my late mom. I got that right. When I looked this song up in the internet, it shows the song was released and became popular in 1973. It cannot be from my memory because I was three years old when this song got popular. My mom keeps sending me this song to let me know my mom has been watching over my dad and waiting for him to her place.

In the late afternoon, an interesting synchronicity occurred. My daughter naturally brought me one picture book and asked me to read. I busted into laughter. It was a story of one girl and one boy at the kindergarten. The boy’s name is the same as that of my dad. The little girl and the little boy were good friends and often played together. On the Tanabata Day; July 7th, the students at the kindergarten learned how to make a decoration ribbon out of Origami papers. The little girl made a whole bunch of the pretty ribbons. The little boy played with the ribbons and broke them. The little girl got sad. The little boy was sad too, because he never thought he would broke her ribbons and make her sad. The teacher advised the little boy to write down his wish on a strip of paper. So he wrote down he wished to be able to play with the little girl again. The little girl was watching the little boy. By that time, she already forgave the little boy and she also wished to play with him again. So, she wrote her wish of playing with him again on a strip of paper and tied it to the next to the little boy’s wish strip paper.

After I read this story, I realized how my mom thinks of my dad. Even though my dad did a lot of bad things to my mom, my mom already forgave my dad. Rather my mom always loves my dad and waits for him to stay together.

I appreciate my mom to make these synchronies happen to inform her feeling. It is always good to know that your parents love each other.   

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My dad-in-law was schedule to get discharged from the hospital today, but it didn’t happen. The doctor noticed his leg got swollen back and they operated a surgery again. There they found another infected area was created in his leg. The doctor decided to keep my dad-in-law for another week to keep checking on the inside condition of his leg. I hope he will get discharged with his completely healed leg soon.  

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My husband and daughter went to eat out at the steak house restaurant. I am not a big fan of eating at a restaurant, so I let them go alone. On their way back, they purchased me a family size of sushi pack from my friends’ store. I appreciate their kind thought.

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I purchased an online lecture of Chinese medicine.

Based on the test, my result was like this.

A. 気虚 – 0

B.血虚 – 1

C. 陰虚 – 2

D. 陽虚 – 2

E. 気滞 – 4

F. 瘀血(おけつ) – 3

G. 痰湿 – 5

H. 湿熱 – 2

Based on my intuition, regardless of the test result, I think I am the type F and should work on fixing these traits in order to resolve my good health.