True hospitality 10/3/2017

My daughter and I are allergic to pets’ hair. The possible symptoms are sneezing, coughing, sore throat, and skin rush and itchy all over the body. The worst symptom is getting hard to breath.

Currently American airline companies allow pet owners to bring their pet into the cabin seat, and the pet can stay with the owner during the flight. This is a good news for pet lovers, but not for us who are allergic to pet’s hair.

I talked with airline representative and asked if my next seat is a person with a pet. The airline company offers a Japanese representative. I am always delighted to have a Japanese representative. They are always very nice and polite. Among all, they always offer upper leveled service.

When I asked my question, she checked all my flights and confirmed that there were no pets in all my flights. It was excellent to know that in advance. Also, she checked my local airport and the time the check-in counter opens. I was planning to arrive there earlier than their opening time. It was great to know this information so that I can adjust my leaving time.

When I lived in Japan, I took Japanese rich hospitality for granted. Whenever you go, in a store, station, hotel, and workplace, you encounter high leveled hospitality and great services in Japan. Now I really miss that. At least now that I know that, I am not going to take it for granted whenever I receive great service and warm hospitality from Japanese.

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Paying attention 10/2/2017

My friend started her monthly card reading in a video form. I was very happy for her of her any progress toward her life goal.

I wanted to watch the video, and after that, I was planning to email her about my feedback tonight. I told my daughter that I was planning to stay up late tonight.

 Four of Summer by Doreen and Radleigh

My daughter is gifted to see and hear angels and spirits. While I was mentioning that, my daughter was quietly nodding toward her left side. She always does this gesture when she hears something from angels. She told “okay, I will tell Mom” to her left direction.

Then, she faced to me and told me that my angels begged me to take care of my body and have enough rest instead of staying up late. I replied to my daughter to do my best on not staying up that late.

Later on, after my daughter went to bed, I started watching my friend’s reading video. Toward the end of her reading, she drew a card of “Four of Summer”, from Fairy Tarot Cards created by Doreen Virtue and Radleigh Valentine. She pointed out the angel at the left bottom and said “This angel is begging and begging that please pay attention to their advice. Please pay attention to take good care of your body.”

I bursted into laughter. Wow. I love this syncronisity. What a cute way to tell me this message.

So, her reading came right on time. And, yes, I will listen to my angels tonight. I will go to bed early without staying up late. Thank you angels for your advice.

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The theme of my year 2017 10/1/2017

We have just entered to October 2017. For my family and me, this year so far has been going in a peaceful and gentle way. We really appreciate for that. In last year, year of 2016, went by in a harsh and dynamic way for us. It is interesting to observe that how different energies are between the last year and this year.

For the past nine months of this year, I had spent my days in fixing and repairing my physical body. I fixed my metal fixings to tooth colored resin. It was painful but I feel good after the improvements. I fixed my left shoulder pain with the help of physical therapists. And, as for my diabetes situation, it goes well and bad; back and forth. With my family’s mental support, I stay being positive and working on its improvement.

Also, I have reconnected with my family and old friends. The reconnections naturally happened. I feel so grateful to know those family and friends had thought about me and missed me for these past years, and they took their courage to contact me.

So, it seems that I have two themes of my year 2017. One is to acknowledge my physical body and take good care of myself. The other is to acknowledge my precious family and friends who constantly love me. I look forward for the last three months to wrap these themes up.

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Acupuncture points 9/30/2017

My trip is coming closer. My next scheduled period day is my departure day. I don’t want to have it during my long flight. It accompanies with body dullness and pain in the lower abdomen. I wanted it come earlier than the scheduled day without taking any medicine.

Within some minutes of researching on the Internet, I found one informative article. It introduces two specific acupuncture points to make the period come earlier than scheduled day. This article is written in Japanese, but you can still see the clear pictures of acupressure points.

I pressed the two acupuncture points for several seconds a couple of times during the daytime.

Amazing. It worked. At evening, my period came. Thank you, the ancient Chinese people for your deep wisdom.

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Accepting who I am 9/29/2017

When I was small, I used to hate the fact I was born as a girl. I wanted to be born as a boy. I used to say that to my mom frequently. During my elementary school days, I would play baseball with my male friends after school. In any kinds of gathering occasions such as New Year celebration or Obon festival, people naturally gathered as a male group and a female group. I tended to stay in a male group.

When I was a graduate student, I was 22 years old at that time, the school offered me a part time job at the university campus. There were around 10 male professors in my workplace office. It was a study abroad agency.

My job was easy. I made coffee for the male professors. I was the only female worker. I read several newspaper written in English and gave the brief highlights to the other professors. Whenever I found some helpful information regarding foreign schools, I gave the rough summary to the professors.

One day, I got pissed off at making coffee for male professors. I know it sounds silly, but I was serious at that time. I was mad that I was born as a female. I was mad at the society that made the stereotyped concepts. In most workplaces, female workers were naturally responsible to make coffee for male workers.

Among the ten male professors, there was one professor whom I fully trusted and respected. He was open minded and smart. I started expressing my feeling about the stereotyped concepts to him.

He listened to me quietly and carefully. After he let me talk everything how I felt, he asked me why I didn’t like being born as a girl. Once I started expressing the reasons, all the memories from my childhood, even from my past lives, came to me vividly. I started crying so hard.

What he said to me was amazing. He said something like this.

“First off, let me apologize to you as a representative as every man who treated you in a wrong way, both on this lifetime and past lives. Secondly, please know women are more superior to men, which is supported scientific data such as DNA. Women are gifted many things that men cannot experience”. 

He went on and on about the benefits being born as female.

He also reminded me it was me who chose to be born as a girl on this lifetime.

The conversation with him was an excellent healing session. He successfully healed my wounds and change the energy direction from the past to the future. 

This day became my turning point. Since this day, I started appreciating on living a life as a woman. I cannot appreciate enough to this professor who naturally guided me to the right direction.

And, now, especially after I have my husband and daughter, I do appreciate being as a woman so that I can become his wife and her mom.

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Much more relaxed than ever 9/28/2017

This morning I walked to the bus stop with my daughter. When we almost reached at the bus stop, I noticed I was walking with bare handed. I usually carry my daughter’s backpack to the bus stop, but this morning, I forgot to grab it.

My daughter and I looked at each other’s face and busted into laughter.

We quickly run back home, grabbed the backpack, and run back to the bus stop. We made it. Some minutes later, the school bus arrived and she went to school as usual.

Just a silly simple mistake. But I am happy that I could laugh with my daughter.

It is good to laugh, instead of thinking seriously, instead of constantly being intense.

When I was in Japan, living alone and going to work, every time when I was overslept or forgot something to work, I could not laugh about it. Because I tended to take things seriously. Because I didn’t want to lose my job. I was obsessed to be on time, be perfect on everything. I was constantly intense.

Compared with my younger days, I am now more relaxed and easy going than ever. I am glad that I now can raise my daughter with ease.

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Compassion 9/27/2017

I finished reading Chris Anderson’s book; TED Talks: The Official TED Guide to Public Speaking. Chris Anderson is the owner of TED, a nonprofit organization that provides idea-based talks.

His book is inspiring and full of helpful tips for public speaking. He introduces many TED speakers in his book and I watched all of them. That is why it took me for three months to finish reading it. Each speaker was unique. Some of them seem to be a natural born public speaker, while some others obviously were nervous and their body and voice were shaking. I actually liked in both ways.  

One of the Ted speaker was Monica Lewinsky. In her talk, The price of shame, she shared her own experience on being a victim of cyberbullying. She went to the very edge to lose everything, including even her own life. But she survived with the help and support of her family and friends.

First off, she was scared and reluctant to go in public and share her story. However, over the time, she had heard the news about the people who went through cyberbullying and killed themselves. She thought she should come out in public and share her experience. She kept on motivating herself by saying the mantra to herself. The mantra was “This matters.” I am glad that she came out to public and shared her talk. Her sharing does matters.

I hope many people will watch and listen to her. Her talks was important for everybody. Bullying can happen everywhere. I personally experienced the terror from mass psychology. I also experienced being bullied by many others.

When you witness somebody being bullied, please do not simply join in to a mass bullying group. Let’s at least take time to know the truth. In many cases, the person might have made a small mistake. However, like Monica says in her talk, “We all deserve compassion.” 

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What missing items brought 9/26/2017

I like online shopping because I don’t need to have a conversation with anybody when I buy online. Yes, I admit that I am a misanthrope somewhat.

Anyway, weird things happened. Two days straight, yesterday and today, I received two packages from different online shops. In both orders, one item was missing.

I needed to report about this to both stores. I didn’t want to call because I don’t like to speak English on the phone. Besides, most of cases, I need to listen to the recorded announcement instructing to press this number and that number, then I will need to wait for the next available representative.

So, I chose their online chat as my contacting method. While I was chatting with two different representatives, another weird things happened. Although I never met them in person, I could see their appearance and daily life pattern.

One representative was a man. He was in his early 30s. He was wearing a light blue and yellow plaid shirt and a light beige colored slacks with a pair of sneaker. He was a single dad who were raising two teenage girls. He loved his daughters and he didn’t mind sacrificing his time and money for his daughters.

The other representative was a young woman. She was in her early 20s. Her current job was her first job in her life. She didn’t like her current job. She put up with her working hour by thinking about her private time after work. She enjoys her private time by going to yoga and cooking classes. She enjoys chatting with her friends there.

I don’t know why I saw these visions. It does not happen all the time but does happen once in a while. They might be somewhat spiritually connected with me. So, the missing items brought me some spiritual seeing ability practice.   

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Willing to change stereotyped perspectives 9/25/2017

Babies choose their parents and all the given environments such as their gender, nationality, date of birth, and date of place.

I want to share one story. I heard this story from a girl who was 5 years old at that time. The girl was gifted to see and hear spirits and angels.

While the girl’s mother was pregnant with her second baby, the girl often talked to the baby’s spirit in her mom’s tummy.

One day the baby’s spirit told the girl that it decided not to be born this time. The baby was planning to be born as a unique being; “different from others”. It would provide great learning opportunities for the baby and the baby’s family. However, after the intense observation of the parents’ current energy and the probable future energy, the baby’s spirit and its family spirits decided this parents were not ready for this plan.

One night, the baby’s spirit said good-bye to the girl. The girl saw the baby’s spirit was carried by 4 small angels and flew into the sky. The girl saw them off until they became invisible. The girl didn’t say that to her mom.

On the following morning, the mother felt something wrong in her tummy and went to see the doctor right away. The doctor found out the baby was already dead in her tummy. It was 1 week before the due date.

Later on, the mother got pregnant again, and had a healthy baby.

According to the girl, the healthy baby’s spirit was different from the previous one.

The previous one already found the perfect parents who willingly agreed to go through having and raising a challenging conditioned baby. This parents were ready to have challenges, and also, they are willing to change the society based stereotyped perspectives through the baby’s growth. 

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Fresh-air and natural-sunlight 9/24/2017

I am a fresh-air and natural sunlight lover.

Every morning right after when I wake up, I open all the windows in the house. This is my routine all my life. I do so even in rainy days and windy days. I like to have fresh air and natural sunlight, and I need them physically, mentally, and spiritually.

Once in a while I run into some people who are not like me. They don’t like to have fresh air and natural sun light in their houses. They like to keep their windows and curtains shut all day long. Their houses are always dark, so that you need to turn on the light even in daytime. The old energy get stuck at the same place because there is no stimulation of energy flow. In such houses, I feel my energy is drained. I eager to go back to my house as soon as possible.

Hotels are same way. The room temperature is controlled by air conditioning system. At most motels, windows cannot be opened for security reasons. Even if we can open one window, the air flows only one way without air circulation. I can’t feel healthy when I need to stay at hotel for many days.

In my personal opinion based on my own experience, we all need fresh air and natural sunlight for our good health. They are natural medicine to raise our vibration. They also function as cleansing by removing old and sucked energy. 

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