I believe everybody has gone through a bad experience on being gossiped. However, interestingly, there are many gossipers who don’t notice themselves they gossip.

Japanese old saying goes 人の口には戸は立てられぬ. It translates “Anyone can start a rumor, but none can stop one”. This saying indicates the issue of gossiping has existed long time ago. I guess gossiping is just a very natural human’s habit.

I went through the bad experience of listening somebody gossiping. And the worst thing for me was that I knew the persons who were gossiped. They were not my close friends, but I knew them personally. They were always nice to me. I personally did not want to know any kinds of their personal stories, especially their private tough stories.

One time I took my courage and pointed out the gossiper to stop leaking others’ private issues. The person said to me that it was not gossiping. She believed it was okay for her to share the others’ stories with me. 

I really disagree. Her friends talked about their private issues because they trusted her. Her friends never expected of their friend gossiping and spreading their private issues to other people. I wouldn’t feel comfortable if my friend spreads around my private issue to somebody, especially to somebody whom I know.

To me, gossiping includes talking anything about somebody else who is not at the place where the conversation is held.

I would like to share one of Eleanor Roosevelt’s Quotes.

Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.

偉大な人はアイデアについて話し、普通の人は物事について話し、つまらない人間は他人のことを話す。

Eleanor Roosevelt is absolutely right. Let’s focus on ideas. Let’s focus on our own. Let’s stop gossiping. Really, others’ issues are none of my business, and my issue is none of others’ business.

Here are my small suggestions.

When we hear our friends talking about their tough situation, let’s pray for their better situation, instead of spreading their private issue to other people.

When somebody starts gossiping about somebody else, let’s simply leave the person, or let’s be brave and tell the person, it’s not good to gossip, I don’t want to spend my time listening a gossip.

I believe when each of us keeps it in our mind not to get involved with any kinds of gossiping process, we can change the environment. Like always. Small baby steps will change the world.

My family souls around me (aka, my guide spirits) love to surprise me.

When I ask for some advice to my family souls, they don’t give me an answer directly or right away. I often visualize myself putting my both palms upward to a certain direction, then my family souls throw an idea or advice from my back; from unexpected direction. Or, they use some other methods to convey the message, such as through books, songs, newspapers, Internet articles, or even though strangers’ conversation. When they do so, they are giggling like a small child. But at the same time, they are hoping I will notice their surprise gift.

Whether I can notice the message or not depends on my mind’s status. When I am clinging on heavy emotion such as worried or angry, my spiritual window is too narrow to notice the message. When I am happy and open minded, it is easy for me to notice even a small sign.

Maybe, your family souls also love to surprise you. They convey messages to you in unexpected ways. When you notice a small sign and receive their message, they are happy for you on your spiritual growth and clap their hands.

Time is what we can manipulate as we like. In the Universe, the concept of Time does not exist. It exists only in the planet Earth. We all agreed to use the concept of Time for our convenience. With the concept of Time, we can know when to go back to the Spirit World.

I’ve heard many people complaining they are too busy to meditate. But, remember that we can manipulate time as we like. Many of us have time for going to bathroom. That means we have at least 5 minutes or so. When we fully concentrate to NOW state for the 5 minutes and meditate, we can manipulate the time to longer than the time we see in a clock. Then, the 5 minutes is enough time for us to go to the Sprit World, receive all the necessary knowledge and advise, and come back safely to our physical body. Opposite can be said too. Even if we have enough time to meditate, such as 40 minutes or so, if we don’t focus on NOW state, we just waste our precious time for nothing. Another example is that when someone needs to study, if he/she studies with listening to the music, thinking about all the chores, or doing something else simultaneously beside the study, the person cannot absorb anything necessary at all. When we fully focus on the NOW state, we can shut off all the outside noise and concerns.

The true matter is how we want to use our time. Luckily, we all are provided the rights to use our time as we like, and it is called Free Will.

Have you ever heard that your doctor’s belief affects to your health condition? I would like to share my own experience about that.

My horoscope teacher mentioned in his lecture that when you observe something, you, as an observer, affects the observation results through your thoughts and expectation. Same can be said to a doctor. When your doctor believes that a certain sickness condition will never ever be recovered, your body naturally sucks in their belief.

My previous doctor used to tell me that diabetes cannot be revered forever. She strongly believes that once the person is diagnose as diabetes, the person will be diabetes for the rest of their lives, regardless of their efforts or life style changes. I started seeing this doctor, simply because my insurance company assigned her as my primary doctor. I was too naïve that I never thought I could change my primary doctor as per my change request.

I had gone to see this doctor for about 1 year. My health condition had gone worse and worse. I don’t want to blame this doctor for everything, but I am sure this doctor took some part of my health condition going worse.

When I tried to make a doctor’s appointment this month, the receptionist was very rude, and she didn’t allow me to make an appointment. After I hung up the phone, I had a strong urge to call my insurance company to change my primary doctor, so I did. Regardless of my concern, the receptionist of my insurance company was very nice and kind, and changing the doctor was done within 2 minutes. Just like that, easily done. So, I was supposed to change my doctor at this moment.

Another thing I would like to share with you is about the messages from Angels. Right after I changed my doctor, I asked Angels about my health condition how I can get well by using Angel cards. The card I was drawn to take was “Change physician”. I started laughing. I said out loud to Angels, “Yeah, I just did!!” I had a very good feeling about my new doctor.

Then today, I went to see a new doctor. I instantly liked him; his positive attitude. He assured me that I can definitely reverse my diabetic condition. He encouraged me to exercise vigorously. Not a mild exercise like gentle walking, but more like sweating exercise to burn calorie, every day. I feel that I will getter with this doctor, because he believes that I can heal myself. I have solid confidence that my A1C result and body weight will get better in 3 months. I will keep you updated. So, please come back to my page to check it out.

When we are young and healthy, we tend to take our youth and good health for granted. I was one of them. But we cannot keep on ignoring the messages from our physical bodies.

I was diagnosed as diabetic in January 2014. The diagnosis was really shocking to me. I never expected I would get serious sickness. I took my good health for granted. At that time, my A1C was 8.4, which was considered as very, very bad. I cried a lot. I regretted everything what I did to my body for the past several years. I started blaming this and that, to find out the cause why I became diabetic.

After I went through the phase on blaming and cussing about all the possible causes, I changed my mind to think positively. It happened for some reasons. I realized that I should focus on how I can get healed.

I started eating and drinking healthier than before, and accommodating exercise in a daily basis. I started feeling good about my body. With these efforts, I had recovered my A1C to 5.8, which is very close to normal range. I also recovered my body weight to 122 lb, which I felt very comfortable to move around. I have gained these preferable results within 1.5 year.

Then, my husband got laid off. My family had gone through no income for about 1 year. With this stressful causes, my health situation got back to worse. One year after the good results, my A1C went back to bad as 6.7, and I gained weight to 136 lb.

My health condition swings back from good and bad. I think my body is telling me that I should keep my good health physically and mentally no matter what condition I go through. Now, it is time for me again, to stop complaining about the stressful days. I need to change my thinking to positive again.

As we go through our life, we should put some more efforts than younger days, to take good care of our bodies. Our physical bodies are like our partners in this lifetime to fulfill our life missions. So, let’s appreciate our physical bodies and listen to their requests and needs.

I have started taking online course from Doreen Virtue. Her sincere messages in her promotion video really touched my soul. Doreen mentioned in her video that “In this class, all the students are a beautiful family. We are here to support each other. We don’t compete. There is no competition.”

“We don’t compete.” This is the sentence that I love to hear all the time. It resonates me so much.

There are so much competition in the real world. I don’t care for a win-lose situation. I love the situation of win-win on both sides. I believe nobody needs to feel as a loser.

Then why do we need to compete?

I think the competition comes from our wrong perception about the resource. We are traditionally told that the resource has a limitation. But the truth is that Universe has unlimited resource. The Universe can provide us whatever we need. The planet Earth is actually the place where our will can produce anything, anytime without limitation. When we fully understand this simple logic, or I should say when we fully remember this simple logic, we won’t need to compete or fight with anybody anymore.

Just relax. Please know that resource is limitless. We don’t need to get jealous of others because they has something that we don’t have. All we need to do is ask the Universe.

We are all unique, and each of us came to this life with different purpose. That means we all need or want different things for different purposes. Some people want to have lots of money, while others want to have prosperous in human relationships. And some people want to have great reputations, while others want to have a quiet privacy.

I believe when each of us really focus on what we want, we don’t need to compete, simply because we want to have different things. When we have abundance in certain things, we can share with others who do not have the specific things.

I would like to share my dream of this morning and the message.

I was climbing up a steep circular stairs with my family. At a one spot, we run into one woman who showed her rude attitude toward us. I instantly reacted to this situation, got mad at her, and started yelling her back. When I recovered myself to a normal calm state, I found that my family had gone far, already at higher place in the circular stairs. I run at my full speed and somehow could catch up with my family. Then, with this last scenery, I woke up.

I quickly jotted down the dream as usual, then I asked my family souls what messages they tried to convey to me. They sent me the block of thoughts. So, the message was like this.

Our vibration gets lowered only when we allow to do so. In daily life, there are so many events to test our capacity to recover our energy health back to our normal state.

In my dream, I was the only one who got irritated to the rude woman. The other family members did not pay attention to her.

So, I need to analyze why I got irritated to the woman’s attitude.

Maybe I had energy leakage to allow any negative energy coming in to my energy field. In that case, I need to check my energy field and find the leakage, and fix it.

Maybe I had a low tolerance toward certain people’s attitude because of my ego. My ego had certain standards that all the people should have the same moral as I do, but in reality, people have different morals than I do. In that case, I have to let go of my ego. I have to realize that it is not my job to change people’s moral. I can change myself, but I cannot change others.

At every event, I need to feel my emotion, learn any kinds of lessons that I can learn, and then quickly recover myself to my normal calm state. I should not stay at the same level with a certain negative feeling.

I think the important thing is how quickly we can analyze and fix the cause of our vibration down, and get back to our original route.

As we live our lives, we run into many people. Based on our agreements before we were born, we get to very close with some people. I feel human relationships are like ocean waves. They come and go. Even the relationship is for a short term, some relationships are so precious that we cannot forget. I would like to share one of such relationships. Her coming into my life was so precious, even though it was a very short term.

I had a very close friend when I was living in Japan. When I met her for the first time, I instantly liked her, and we became very close friends. We shared many things in common. Our birthday was 1 day apart, and our birth year was 1 year apart. Our way of thinking was similar. We used to tell each other that both of us would live in America and see each other again somewhere in America. We didn’t know when it would happen, but we knew it would be soon, not far from then. We had built our solid friendship for about 2 years. However, after our small argument, we stopped contacting each other. I believe it was sometime in 2002.

In April 2005, I went to Gathering of Nations Pow Wow in Albuquerque. When I was sitting in the audience seat in the arena, my old friend came to me. It was like a miracle. I was so surprised that she could find me among the huge audience. We hugged each other and chatted for a while. She seemed like very happy of our reunion. But then again, both of us did not exchange our new phone number or address. So, after our miraculous reunion, we had not contacted each other.

In summer of 2013, one of my psychic friend conveyed me a message that one of my female friends was thinking of me and missing me. I instantly thought of her. Since that time, I had started often thinking of her. But there was no way to contact her as I didn’t know her contact information.

Then in 2014, I was guided to one Internet newspaper article, where I was informed of her death of January 2014. Based on the article, she permanently moved to America in 2004. So, she made her dream come true 4 years before I did. I permanently moved to America in 2008.

I really feel our friendship happened for a reason. Although I did not see her again before she left this physical world, I am pretty sure we saw each other in another dimension.

Each encounter is miraculous. People come and go. Let’s take a time and embrace each relationship. As I mentioned in my short article before, the exact same moment does not come back to us again, and that is why we should enjoy every moment.

This morning, my family souls conveyed me a message in my dream. They told me to write down everybody’s name, who has supported us in our tough transition. Then, I should put my both hand on each person’s name, and send good thoughts about the person, one by one, filled with lots of smile and love for the person, and send it to the universe. From there, the sprits will take care the remainder job for me.

My family have received so much love and supports from our family and friends. When I wrote their names down, I was so surprised that so many people have supported us. It is now our turn to return back good thoughts and appreciations back to them, so that they can be rewarded something great for their kindness.

I took my time, showed my appreciation to each one of them. It was so great to know that there are good people exist in this world.

My current phone number adds up to number 7. The number 7 has energy for solitude and spirituality. I liked my number because not so many people had called me on this phone number. I had enjoyed the quietness.

However, recently, I have felt an urge to change my phone number to something prosperous in business. My family souls kept on sending me the message “number 8”. So, I thought about changing my phone number that all the numbers will add up to 8.

My cell phone company offers a service to change our phone number for free of charge. The company gives us the option on selecting the first 3 digit (area code). As for the middle 3 digits, the company gives us around 10 options that we can choose. Finally, as for the last 4 digit, the company gives us just one selection automatically.

Then, on my first trial, I got a very good selection. The last 4 digit was 0444, which I fall in love instantly. Number 4 has energy of stability and fairness. And my new phone number adds up to 44, and adds to 8.

I love this new phone number and I believe it is a small gift from my family souls.